6 Kinky Things My Husband And I Have Done To Spice Up Our Marriage


The thought of waking up to the same person for the rest of your life may become a bit overwhelming at times. It means no more one night stands, or out of town hook ups that made sex all that exciting. It is as though with the catch ends the pleasure of the chase. However being married or in a long-term relationship does entail the possibility of falling into a sexual rut where you both have certain preferences and only opt for those.

You both want to stay in your comfort zone as far as exploring different sexual pleasures is concerned. Sex seems like a formality and something which has lost its charm.

This need not be the norm and following are some of the ways middle aged couples could turn up the heat in the bedroom and relive the initial excitement of their relationship.

1. Venturing outdoors to do the deed

There is nothing more exhilarating than getting it on in the great outdoors. The constant thrill of getting caught in the act and the wild surroundings just makes for a never before experience. Obviously such extreme measures are sometimes necessary to crank up the excitement and feel that rush of adrenaline while being intimate with your partner.

2. My partner tied me up

Some couples have strange fetish like making out while being tied up. One of the partners really look forward to getting tied up strongly so no matter how much they writhe or squirm from excitement there is this element of tease which is brought about by being tied helpless. Well to each their own and if that really helps someone look forward to intimate experience they should definitely do it.

3. We went for the scenic route (read anal sex)

Just like some things are reserved for major festive moments butt sex is also something which is to be enjoyed once in a while. It is certainly that special and enjoyable provided you use copious amounts of lube. There is no such thing as too much lube when it comes to butt sex. It is not something oft –repeated or indulged in on daily basis because sometimes a person may not be in the mood at all to have their butt hole touched.

4. Giving my husband a citrusy blow job

Sometimes a person is just so clear in their mind about what they want to do. There is no probable explanation but it is due to the love and understanding between husband and wife and the years they have been together. One couple, the wife actually, recalled how she squeezed citrus juice all over her husband’s privates and went down on him.

The years of trust made him ease into the act and ended up receiving a mighty pleasing blow job. If that is not out of the ordinary and something which is exciting between the sheets we don’t know what is.

5. Watching each other masturbate

The act of helping each other masturbate is common intimate stuff however one couple shared how watching each other touch themselves is even more enticing. The fact that couples were making themselves comfortable in front of each other was strangely a very strong turn on for both. It is as though this was a domain of pleasure never before explored or discovered.

6. Spanking is oddly satisfying

One of the partners in a long-term relationship confessed she liked it when her husband spanked her. There is this trust that the person spanking you is aware of their own strength and also aware of the fact that how much your body will accept as sexually gratifying. However first thing first: the one who is getting spanked should be in that frame of mind and the one who is spanking should be gentle and just the right amount of aggressive to derive maximum pleasure.